But writing, "I may be a total foodie, but I am always up for a Sunday Fun Day, eating wings and drinking beer with the boys," can go a very long way.The more you show that you can be a potential best friend as well as a romantic partner, the better.The unwanted suitors are going to arrive at your inbox no matter what you do.The key to your profile is to attract the ones you do want by appearing to be a happy, fun-loving person. Maybe this message will be different than all the others. Perhaps this email will finally be the one that doesn't have you contemplating the potential rise in serial killers populating your neighborhood. If this sounds familiar, don't get too down on your luck. You have the most beautiful brown eyes I ever seen. " You log off, wondering if online dating was ever a good idea to begin with.
Stick to language that shows high levels of confidence whenever possible. While you may think this is a productive way to ward off unwanted suitors, all it does is make men think that you are a negative person and possibly jaded by one too many bad dates.Seeing one unflattering picture is sometimes enough to make a man question everything he has seen prior to that photo.As a rule of thumb, you are only as good as your worst picture.Suppose you don't like football, but like beer and wings.You don't have to lie and pretend to like football.