Let's face it: How do you drop that bomb on a potential love interest? She considered a number of online dating venues, but she says asked too many questions on its enrollment form, e Harmony was too "religious," and My Space was too much of a "hookup zone." "I wanted to meet men with my same diagnosis so we wouldnt [need to] have 'the talk,' or fear of rejection and transmitting," she says.
“Most of us with this don't wish to spread it.”While sites like and e Harmony don't discriminate, they also don't cater to people like Lana who are coping with sexually transmitted diseases, disabilities, or mental health conditions.
Jim Leftwich, 39, a college librarian from White Plains, N.
(Access to the sites full features is available for per year.
Thats substantially cheaper than sites like and e Harmony, which can cost upwards of per month.)“To me, thats pressure right there,” says Robert Watson, the executive director of the nonprofit dating service Date Able, which caters primarily to those with physical and mild psychiatric handicaps.
“I find with my clientele, theyre more willing to get to know someone remotely and theyre more open,” he says.
“They dont have the same kind of prejudices that people in general tend to have.”Even though most mental illnesses can be controlled with medication, therapy, or a combination of the two, some people still view conditions such as bipolar disorder as a mark of weakness or instability.“Even in todays enlightened society, where acceptance and diversity are hailed as the right thing to do...mentally ill people tend to be outcasts.
Y., has lived with schizoaffective disorder, a condition that combines features of schizophrenia and mood disorders (such as depression), since 1992.